Places To Take A Girl To On A First Date In Nigeria

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Is there a special girl in your life whom you think is far better than the type you toast while standing by the roadside? You want to profess your love for her but you don't know where to take her to just to do that. Maybe you do but you don't know how to go about it. Well, you are in the right place.

Below are a list of nice spots to take her to, where you can pour out your mind while you both enjoy the outing.

1. Restaurant

We all know most restaurants for lovers in Nigeria are very expensive, so an eatery can be recommended. Whichever you choose, make sure the interior is beautiful and romantically colourful enough to get you both in a relaxed mood. I'll also suggest the place to have a light music playing so as to keep it from feeling like a ghost town, this will ensure your discussion is only heard by the both of you alone and not also by some waiter or other customers. Most eatries get crowded, so it's best you pick one that doesn't get much customers which might be due to the fact that they just opened, or you pick a time you know the place is usually scanty cos you don't want to end up bringing your voice too low because of lack of privacy or screaming too much because of a noisy crowd. One major thing to consider is the food. Make sure they serve delicious meals cos your conversation might become awful if the meal taste bad. The best meal to order is usually the type that has you both using fork and knife or just spoon cos it allows you to be a gentleman and her a lady, but if she orders for amala or fufu, respect her choice...lol. To look like a gentleman, make sure you put on a nice long sleeve button-up shirt, nice pant trousers and neat looking shoes with some cologne which are all ok for both daytime and evening dates.
Spots to check out: KFC, mama cass, chinese restaurant and golden gate restaurant....baba o!



2. Cinema

You might be wondering how you'll get the chance to toast her in a cinema hall with surround sound blasting and her carried away by the movie. Well, the toasting here is done in the cab that takes you both home. The idea to see a movie in a cinema is just for you to get her involved in some activity which will put her in a good and relaxed mood before you drop it like it's hot. It's adviceable you pick a day you know the cinema of your choice will be showing an interesting movie or a funny one, this will help make her lose her guard as she gets carried away by laughter.
Spots to check: ozone cinema, silverbird cinema and pen cinema agege...lol



3. Beach

This is a nice attempt at trying to see some smooth skin, but that's only if she will swim on bikini...sharp guy! Make sure it's not one of those festive period days that normally see the beach have more humans than sand. The idea is to have enough sun around while you both sit on top of a mat under the shade of a coconut tree, sipping wine while the cool sea breeze helps you rebooth her brain anytime your configuration is not working on her. There can't be a boring moment in such a spot, cos I can assure you that there'll certainly be someone who will be there with his or her friends celebrating a birthday or something, both of you can join them in the merry mood after you're done chit-chatting.

Oh I forgot, not everyone lives in a coastal area. Well, if you don't live in a coastal area where you can easily access a beach, a swimming pool is still cool. There'll certainly be an hotel or a spot close to you that has a pool. Just chill with her by the pool side, sipping drinks while you gist away.
Beaches to check out: oniru, sultan, bar beach etc.



4. Your crib

Inviting her over to your crib is only adviceable when she's use to you already. Make sure she's the type that can find any activity thrilling, activities like playing scrabble, ludo, cards or simply watching a movie. A smart dude will slot in a romantic movie just to set the tone right. It will be nice to have a bowl of ice cream and chips to go with. Since it's a first date, I'll advice you don't get too seductive unless you are sure of your seduction game. If so, watch out for signs of interest she might be emitting. If you are an olodo, you might read the signs in such a way that you'll end up spending 21yrs behind bars, but a smartie with his A game will get her flashing a green light in such a way that he'll almost think he's driving a car.


I hope I've been able to pass a vital information across to someone. As for the ladies who might be reading this, pls learn to appreciate the effort guys put into impressing you. Don't shatter a guys ego or go along with those crazy things naija babes do on a date which can be found HERE