how to be an attractive guy
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Someone once told me that ugly dudes don't have any mirror at home, I somehow reasoned with him. To the handsome guys, don't you feel awesome when you stare at your reflection in the mirror, maybe after a shave at the barber shop? I can't doubt that there are ugly people on earth(father forgive me), but most guys who boxed themselve in that category really have no business being there. I believe they got so much involved in some activities that shattered their ego and made them look less of themselves that they now find it difficult having a normal conversation with a girl not to talk of asking one out. Well, you can have your mojo back if you try out the below.
Hygiene
Kindly dip your hand in your boxer short, remove it and move it close to your nose. Does it smell fresh? What makes you think a girl's nose is not sharp enough to catch a whiff of that stink? Wearing dirty undies amounts to having dirty armpits cos it's clear you don't wash your clothes. What do you think is the first thing a girl looks at when you approach her while walking? Your face? No! She looks at your shoes before your face. Imagine putting on scuffed shoes and having a face full of unshaved hair, she'll simply think you are a destitute. The best way to make her cut you some slack is to have a nice haircut with well trimmed beards/moustache, but that shouldn't stop you from getting neat shoes, not necessarily expensive ones. Do you know that new clothes can make you appear fresher than you actually are? Make sure you smell nice using good cologne.
Good talker
Picture yourself on fresh clothes, hair trimmed to perfection and putting on a nice perfume..... don't you feel good already? Well, after your dressing is done speaking for you, that cute girl will still want to hear your voice. If you go about stuttering like em...em...before the chick, all the respect you managed to earn from her will vanish, and a lady's respect is like virginity: once it's gone, you are never getting it again. Let's say you managed to be composed, girls still like to make guys lose balance with what they called shit test. No girl wants to be in bed with a weaklin or carry the baby of one, so they developed a tactics which helps them sieve out the strong from the weak. Why do you think ladies in the past loved warriors in the mold of hercules and achilles? Well the warriors they now fall for are the ones who conquer money. What if, even with being a money bag, she shit test you by responding like "you must be jobless for approaching me", how will you respond? Such is intended to knock you out. Your respond can pass you off as a guy above her league or another money-miss-road(rich but no confidence). A confident dude will pass the test and even shit test her immediately, but a wack one will suddenly become confused and egoless like a naked person, even with his expensive clothes on. Answer the test in this manner: smile and say "do you mean it's only jobless people that approach you?".....keep smiling. It's going to take her close to a minute before she can find something to say, a time a smart dude will use to revert the conversation to what actually made him approach her.
keep a few change
We all know girls love money and what it can buy, even when they can provide those things for themselve, they still love to depend on guys. But not all girls love too much of money, just a bit to throw around, uno! Open your wallet and see the amount you've got in it. Don't come up with the excuse of having your money in the bank o! You are on the safer side if you've got some reasonable notes in it. What if your conversation with her got smooth to the level of her opening up to you about how she's trekking cos she doesn't have enough for transportation? A dumb dude will quickly give her money for transport, not cos he has it, but cos he thinks that will impress her. The smart guy will divert her attention from her predicament, make sure they walk a while more till he hass fulfilled his mission, then put her in a cab, a commercial motorcycle or get them some ice cream to help mask the stress of the journey while they continue. It's just so sad that guys of today keep more condoms than cash in their wallet....lol
Don't succumb to a girl's every demand
How do you spend your hard-earned money? You lavish it on nonsense? Definitely no! We always cherish what we struggled hard to get more better than what came our way easily. Why do you think she shit test you? She does it to prove to you that she's not cheap so you won't triffle with her if she eventually falls in line, cos girls know we guys cherish the ones who give us a run for our money. Now, this shouldn't make you turn yourself into a doormat that she can rub her dirty feet on. You have to also prove to her that though you are the one chasing after her, you also have your own stance which means you are not cheap as well and should be done anything to get. It's that mindset that will prevent you from doing the silly things she might want to make you do, like telling you to buy her a drink when you just met (a thing a lady who respects you won't request for), or burn your phone's call time cos you offered it to her. A normal guy can't look in the face of a warrior and order him around, not to talk of a girl, so why should you allow her do such to you when she hasn't done you similar favour?
Well, now that you've got a nice haircut, fresh clothes, shoes, deodorant, cash in your wallet and some boldness in you, I think it's time to go out there and purchase a mirror...lol
Someone once told me that ugly dudes don't have any mirror at home, I somehow reasoned with him. To the handsome guys, don't you feel awesome when you stare at your reflection in the mirror, maybe after a shave at the barber shop? I can't doubt that there are ugly people on earth(father forgive me), but most guys who boxed themselve in that category really have no business being there. I believe they got so much involved in some activities that shattered their ego and made them look less of themselves that they now find it difficult having a normal conversation with a girl not to talk of asking one out. Well, you can have your mojo back if you try out the below.
Hygiene
Kindly dip your hand in your boxer short, remove it and move it close to your nose. Does it smell fresh? What makes you think a girl's nose is not sharp enough to catch a whiff of that stink? Wearing dirty undies amounts to having dirty armpits cos it's clear you don't wash your clothes. What do you think is the first thing a girl looks at when you approach her while walking? Your face? No! She looks at your shoes before your face. Imagine putting on scuffed shoes and having a face full of unshaved hair, she'll simply think you are a destitute. The best way to make her cut you some slack is to have a nice haircut with well trimmed beards/moustache, but that shouldn't stop you from getting neat shoes, not necessarily expensive ones. Do you know that new clothes can make you appear fresher than you actually are? Make sure you smell nice using good cologne.
Good talker
Picture yourself on fresh clothes, hair trimmed to perfection and putting on a nice perfume..... don't you feel good already? Well, after your dressing is done speaking for you, that cute girl will still want to hear your voice. If you go about stuttering like em...em...before the chick, all the respect you managed to earn from her will vanish, and a lady's respect is like virginity: once it's gone, you are never getting it again. Let's say you managed to be composed, girls still like to make guys lose balance with what they called shit test. No girl wants to be in bed with a weaklin or carry the baby of one, so they developed a tactics which helps them sieve out the strong from the weak. Why do you think ladies in the past loved warriors in the mold of hercules and achilles? Well the warriors they now fall for are the ones who conquer money. What if, even with being a money bag, she shit test you by responding like "you must be jobless for approaching me", how will you respond? Such is intended to knock you out. Your respond can pass you off as a guy above her league or another money-miss-road(rich but no confidence). A confident dude will pass the test and even shit test her immediately, but a wack one will suddenly become confused and egoless like a naked person, even with his expensive clothes on. Answer the test in this manner: smile and say "do you mean it's only jobless people that approach you?".....keep smiling. It's going to take her close to a minute before she can find something to say, a time a smart dude will use to revert the conversation to what actually made him approach her.
keep a few change
We all know girls love money and what it can buy, even when they can provide those things for themselve, they still love to depend on guys. But not all girls love too much of money, just a bit to throw around, uno! Open your wallet and see the amount you've got in it. Don't come up with the excuse of having your money in the bank o! You are on the safer side if you've got some reasonable notes in it. What if your conversation with her got smooth to the level of her opening up to you about how she's trekking cos she doesn't have enough for transportation? A dumb dude will quickly give her money for transport, not cos he has it, but cos he thinks that will impress her. The smart guy will divert her attention from her predicament, make sure they walk a while more till he hass fulfilled his mission, then put her in a cab, a commercial motorcycle or get them some ice cream to help mask the stress of the journey while they continue. It's just so sad that guys of today keep more condoms than cash in their wallet....lol
Don't succumb to a girl's every demand
How do you spend your hard-earned money? You lavish it on nonsense? Definitely no! We always cherish what we struggled hard to get more better than what came our way easily. Why do you think she shit test you? She does it to prove to you that she's not cheap so you won't triffle with her if she eventually falls in line, cos girls know we guys cherish the ones who give us a run for our money. Now, this shouldn't make you turn yourself into a doormat that she can rub her dirty feet on. You have to also prove to her that though you are the one chasing after her, you also have your own stance which means you are not cheap as well and should be done anything to get. It's that mindset that will prevent you from doing the silly things she might want to make you do, like telling you to buy her a drink when you just met (a thing a lady who respects you won't request for), or burn your phone's call time cos you offered it to her. A normal guy can't look in the face of a warrior and order him around, not to talk of a girl, so why should you allow her do such to you when she hasn't done you similar favour?
Well, now that you've got a nice haircut, fresh clothes, shoes, deodorant, cash in your wallet and some boldness in you, I think it's time to go out there and purchase a mirror...lol
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