Before You Collect That Money From Your Boyfriend, Ask Yourself These Questions

Below are a few questions a lady should ask herself before thinking about billing her boyfriend. Having the right understanding of the questions will help make her relationship a great one.


1. Have I given him this much before?

Relationship involves give and take. If you are just receiving without giving much back in kind, then you have made it a one way traffic. Don't request for more than you can actually give a guy, and make sure you do give. When you do give, make sure it's not some cheap gift like boxer shorts and singlets which don't cost up to 0.5% of the amount he gives you on a bad day.

2. Am I a leech?

Why must you always rely on your boyfriend for everything? Stop seeing the guy as your meal ticket. Look at yourself from head to toe and ask yourself the below question.

3. Can't I work for my own money?

Yes, you can. You are not crippled neither are you blind. If he's getting his money from somewhere, nothing stops you from going there to get yours. As long as you have a brain like him, you have no excuse to be a pest.

4. Have I advised him to give his mum money?

You are not yet his wife, but you are already depriving his family of his usefulness by placing heavy bills on his head thereby preventing him from having money to spare for his family. If you want to be a wife material, put your man's family first and watch every other thing fall in place. Make sure he gives his mum way more than he gives you cuz you will one day be a mother.

5. Do I really appreciate his efforts?

After neglecting his family just to please you, you still take him for granted by not appreciating what he gives you. You believe what you get from him is your entitlement which shouldn't make you show gratitude. What do you give him in return? Nothing, other than the sex which he also gives you.

6. Will I get angry or reject him if him doesn't give me?

Ladies don't know how irritating they portray themselves when they suddenly start acting nonchalant and unwelcoming simply because their boyfriend failed to grant them a financial request. Do you think it is easy to make money? If it's difficult to make money, why do you expect it to be easy to spend it on you? Kindly read what guys go through before they could earn the money they give to you.

Written by Adewole Segun


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